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Advancing Ourselves by Advancing Others    

10 Tuesday Feb 2026

Posted by Tim K in Psalms, Psalm 35

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achievement, David, helping others, pride, pure heart, rejoice, repent, Schadenfreude, self-improvement, success, thanksgiving, the Psalms

Today’s Devotion from Psalms 365 by David Kitz

Reading: Psalm 35:26-28

Listen to today’s reading by Jonathan Dent:

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May all who gloat over my distress
    be put to shame and confusion;
may all who exalt themselves over me
    be clothed with shame and disgrace.
May those who delight in my vindication
    shout for joy and gladness;
may they always say, “The L
ORD be exalted,
    who delights in the well-being of his servant.”
My tongue will proclaim your righteousness,
    your praises all day long.
(NIV)*

Reflection
Psalm 35 draws to a close with this warning against schadenfreude: May all who gloat over my distress be put to shame and confusion; may all who exalt themselves over me be clothed with shame and disgrace.

So, what is schadenfreude you ask? Dictionary.com defines schadenfreude as satisfaction or pleasure felt at someone else’s misfortune. It is a compound German word: schaden harm + freude joy. In other words, schadenfreude is the joy you may feel when hearing about another person’s calamity. Schadenfreude can be viewed as the ladder-climber’s delight in seeing others fall behind or off the ladder entirely. Far too often it manifests in the false assumption that we can advance ourselves by putting others down. The truth is we advance ourselves by advancing others. Advancing by putdowns has no firm foundation because it hurts others and creates hostility. It usually ends badly because pride precedes a fall, just as darkness follows sunset.

Winter sunset — photo by David Kitz

Are you exalting yourself at the expense of others? If so, take some time to repent. Do your best to repair the damaged relationships that result from such behavior.

Paul, the apostle, gives us this advice: “Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited” (Romans 12:14-16).

Take joy in the success of others rather than resenting their achievements. Let their successes ignite within you a desire for self-improvement. With God’s help change what you can within yourself before looking to change others. We all have a place in our heart that needs some renovation.

Then with David we can rejoice when others succeed. May those who delight in my vindication shout for joy and gladness; may they always say, “The LORD be exalted, who delights in the well-being of his servant” (v. 27).

Response
Father God, give me a heart of thanksgiving. Help me appreciate the giftings and success of others. Grant me a pure heart with pure motives. May I always delight in the well-being of your servants. Amen.

Your Turn
Have you suffered from a bad case of schadenfreude? Do you rejoice when others succeed or are you envious?


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Someone to Help

18 Thursday May 2023

Posted by davidkitz in Psalm 41, Psalms

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help, helping others, Prayer, the needy

Today’s quote and prayer from
“Psalms 365: Develop a Life of Worship and Prayer”
by David Kitz.

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Reading: Psalm 41:1-6

LORD God,
forgive me when I have looked down on others in need.
Open my eyes to someone I may help today.
Show me what I can do.
In Jesus name I pray.
Amen.

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Lifting Others

12 Monday Dec 2022

Posted by davidkitz in Psalm 145

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helping others, lifting, lifting others, praise, worthy

Today’s quote and prayer from
“Psalms 365: Develop a Life of Worship and Prayer”
by David Kitz.

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Reading: Psalm 145:1-7

LORD God,
I just want to praise you. 
Great is the LORD and most worthy of praise;
his greatness no one can fathom
. 
I will meditate on your wonderful works. 
You LORD are the lifter of my head.
Amen.

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Who cares for the poor?

04 Thursday Aug 2016

Posted by davidkitz in Psalms, Thursday's Thought

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bless, generosity, helping others, rescue, sowing and reaping, the poor

You, LORD God, bless everyone who cares for the poor, and you rescue those people in times of trouble (Psalm 41:1, CEV).

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Fountain, Butchart Gardens, Victoria, BC — photo by David Kitz

Reflection

This week’s I Love the Psalms theme is rescuing.

Here’s an old saying, “What goes around, comes around.” It’s a handy proverb that applies in many situations. For example, if we are generous, people will in turn be generous with us. Or if we are cruel, at some point we can expect that others will treat us cruelly. In other words, we reap what we sow.

Today’s verse from the Psalms reminds us of this principle.

You, LORD God, bless everyone who cares for the poor, and you rescue those people in times of trouble (Psalm 41:1, CEV).

God will look after us if we will look after others. He will intervene in our lives and provide the help we need. The day is coming when our generosity will be rewarded. Hardhearted stinginess will be rewarded too, but it’s not the kind of reward that any of us want to get.

St. Paul amplifies these thoughts in his letter to the Galatians. You will harvest what you plant. If you follow your selfish desires, you will harvest destruction, but if you follow the Spirit, you will harvest eternal life. Don’t get tired of helping others. You will be rewarded when the time is right, if you don’t give up. We should help people whenever we can, especially if they are followers of the Lord (Galatians 6:7-10).

Response: LORD God, open my eyes to the needs of others today. Show me how I can help in practical ways. Amen.

Your Turn: Have you experienced your generosity coming back to bless you?

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