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An Invitation to Joy

05 Tuesday Mar 2024

Posted by davidkitz in book review

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book, God, guide, joy, life purpose, self-centered, self-help, wisdom, worth

My initial impression of this book was not particularly strong—a good guide to live a good life. But as the chapters rolled by, I concluded there is much wisdom in these pages, and I needed to pay closer attention to what I was reading and how I was living.613O95czDcL._SL1360_
John Murray draws on experiences from his own life and others to illustrate important truths and values that when applied can bring true joy and fulfillment in life. This is not a self-centered, self-help book, but rather a book that draws us to give to others and to God in order to find true joy and worth in life.

This is sage wisdom for our times from an octagenarian who has lived out these truths.

Thank you, John Murray.

Generous or Tight Fisted

04 Thursday Jan 2024

Posted by davidkitz in Psalm 109, Psalms

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Reading: Psalm 109:16-20
For he never thought of doing a kindness,
but hounded to death the poor
and the needy and the brokenhearted.
He loved to pronounce a curse—
may it come back on him.
He found no pleasure in blessing—
may it be far from him.
He wore cursing as his garment;
it entered into his body like water,
into his bones like oil.
May it be like a cloak wrapped about him,
like a belt tied forever around him.
May this be the LORD’s payment to my accusers,
to those who speak evil of me
(NIV). *
Psalm 42_8

Reflection
We have just come through the giving season. I am of course referring to the pre-Christmas shopping binge, when gifts are purchased, wrapped, and hidden away for the big celebration. Many rail against this tradition, but in reality the scriptures are filled with admonitions that encourage us to be generous and bless others. Christmas and year-end provide us with wonderful opportunities to do just that. A generous person will prosper; whoever refreshes others will be refreshed (Proverbs 11:25).

If we find no pleasure in giving, we may be suffering from more than a simple case of Scrooge-like stinginess. Soul sucking self-centeredness destroys us from within. It defaces the image of God that is stamped upon us from birth. God our heavenly Father is the picture of generosity. He gave His only Son for us. In light of this sacrifice, there’s something terribly wrong if we can’t spare a dime or a kind word for the less fortunate. Generosity is never out of season.

Today’s reading provides us with a negative contrast to the generosity of God. The individual being described withheld his blessing. He loved to pronounce a curse—may it come back on him. He found no pleasure in blessing—may it be far from him.

How generous am I with words of encouragement, praise, and blessing? How generous am I with this world’s goods that have been lavished on me by a gracious Father? Now and in the Christmas season I need to check my heart and my bank account, but above all my heart. Remember this: Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously (2 Corinthians 9:6).

Am I generous with words of praise and thanks for those around me—with the clerk at the shopping mall or the life partner who shares my bed? Am I reflecting or defacing the image of God?

Response: Father God, today I want to be a blessing and pronounce a blessing on those around me. I am thankful for the generosity of your love, forgiveness, and grace. It’s more than I deserve. Amen.

Your Turn: Are you too tight fisted or too lavish with your giving? What provokes you to be generous?

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No Pleasure in Blessing?

29 Tuesday Nov 2016

Posted by davidkitz in Psalm 109, Psalms

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Reading:                                        Psalm 109                                                                 

 (Verses 16-20)

For he never thought of doing a kindness,
but hounded to death the poor
and the needy and the brokenhearted.
He loved to pronounce a curse—
may it come back on him.
He found no pleasure in blessing—
may it be far from him.
He wore cursing as his garment;
it entered into his body like water,
into his bones like oil.
May it be like a cloak wrapped about him,
like a belt tied forever around him.

 May this be the LORD’s payment to my accusers,
to those who speak evil of me
(NIV).

Reflection

Perhaps you have noticed that we have entered the giving season. I am of course referring to the pre-Christmas shopping binge, when gifts are purchased, wrapped and hidden away for the big celebration. Many rail against this tradition, but in reality the scriptures are filled with admonitions that encourage us to be generous and bless others. Christmas and year-end provide us with wonderful opportunities to do just that. A generous person will prosper; whoever refreshes others will be refreshed (Proverbs 11:25).

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Twin blessings, day lilies — photo by David Kitz

If we find no pleasure in giving, we may be suffering from more than a simple case of Scrooge-like stinginess. Soul sucking self-centeredness destroys us from within. It defaces the image of God that is stamped upon us from birth. God our heavenly Father is the picture of generosity. He gave His only Son for us. In light of this sacrifice, there’s something terribly wrong if we can’t spare a dime or a kind word for the less fortunate.

Today’s reading provides us with a negative contrast to the generosity of God. The individual being described withheld his blessing. He loved to pronounce a curse—may it come back on him. He found no pleasure in blessing—may it be far from him.

How generous am I with words of blessing? How generous am I with this world’s goods that have been lavished on me by a gracious Father? During this season I need to check my heart and my bank account, but above all my heart. Remember this: Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously (2 Corinthians 9:6).

Am I generous with words of praise and thanks for those around me—with the clerk at the shopping mall or the life partner who shares my bed? Am I reflecting or defacing the image of God?

Response: Father God, today I want to be a blessing and pronounce a blessing on those around me. I am thankful for the generosity of your love, forgiveness and grace. It’s more than I deserve. Amen.

Your Turn: Are you careful or too lavish with your spending in the Christmas season?

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