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The Family Rift

08 Sunday Mar 2026

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James: the Lynchpin of Our Faith — Chapter 4

One can easily assume that Jesus, and by extension James, grew up in an idyllic family. If God selected Mary to be the mother of God’s own son, then surely, she was a perfect mother—the perfect mother. Joseph too must have been a man of flawless character, a hardworking, salt-of-the-earth fellow with impeccable morals. Growing up in such a home in small-town Nazareth must have been like having your own corner of heaven in this rough and tumble, sin-stained world.

But in this fallen world there is no perfect home and no absolutely perfect family. The taint of sin and the machinations of our ancient foe are everywhere. If it were not so, this world would not need a Savior. It should come as no surprise then, that all was not always sweetness and light in the household of Joseph and Mary. God frequently uses deeply flawed characters.

Luke concludes his account of Jesus’ boyhood temple experience with this summary statement:

Then he [Jesus] went down to Nazareth with them [Mary and Joseph] and was obedient to them. But his mother treasured all these things in her heart. And Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man. (Luke 2:51–52)

There is no indication of any family tension in this statement. On the contrary, the opposite appears to be true, and undoubtedly there were many happy moments of family harmony in this home. But when we examine other passages from the four gospel accounts of Jesus life, we can see that below the surface, trouble was brewing within this holy family. How soon family tension and rivalry reared its ugly head remains open to debate, but as we will soon see, it certainly was present during the time of Jesus public ministry.

Sibling rivalry is common among multi-child families. Was there rivalry between Jesus and his brothers as they grew up? Most likely there was. In fact, the very notion of living with a morally perfect, intellectually superior older brother should send shivers of dread through any thinking child. How could any sibling possibly measure up to this older brother’s exemplary standard? Here we have the textbook recipe for childhood frustration and sibling resentment.

If Jesus reached an epiphany moment in the temple at age twelve, it is reasonable to surmise that James may have had a similar epiphany in his early teens—a moment when he realized that Jesus was profoundly different, and that unlike himself, Jesus was not the son of Joseph.

The Boy Jesus in the Temple Courts

This epiphany may have occurred in a rather ordinary way. Teens his own age may have told James that his brother was the son of another man. Small-town communities have a collective memory. Mary’s initial unexpected pregnancy likely had tongues wagging. Rumors spread and gain currency with time, and in due time that rumor may have circled round to James.

James did not conclude that Jesus was the Son of God. A more natural explanation was much more logical. It is reasonable to assume that in his judgment, James came to believe that Jesus was the product of his mother’s rather unfortunate union with another man. Scripture bears witness to this verdict.

The following passage from John’s Gospel provides us with ample evidence of the tension that was rife within this family:

After this, Jesus went around in Galilee. He did not want to go about in Judea because the Jewish leaders there were looking for a way to kill him. But when the Jewish Festival of Tabernacles was near, Jesus’ brothers said to him, “Leave Galilee and go to Judea, so that your disciples there may see the works you do. No one who wants to become a public figure acts in secret. Since you are doing these things, show yourself to the world.” For even his own brothers did not believe in him.

Therefore Jesus told them, “My time is not yet here; for you any time will do. The world cannot hate you, but it hates me because I testify that its works are evil. You go to the festival. I am not going up to this festival, because my time has not yet fully come.” After he had said this, he stayed in Galilee.

However, after his brothers had left for the festival, he went also, not publicly, but in secret. Now at the festival the Jewish leaders were watching for Jesus and asking, “Where is he?”

Among the crowds there was widespread whispering about him. Some said, “He is a good man.”

Others replied, “No, he deceives the people.” But no one would say anything publicly about him for fear of the leaders. (John 7:1–13)

John’s observation on the brothers’ advice is very enlightening. He states, “For even his brothers did not believe in him.” There was clearly a bitter tension here that the brothers’ words alone do not convey. The brothers that this passage refers to are of course James, Joseph, Simon and Judas (Jude), as identified in the Gospel accounts of Matthew, Mark, and Luke.

And what precisely did the brothers not believe about Jesus? From the context, it appears that they did believe in his miraculous powers; in fact, they challenged him to reveal himself to the world through them. The phrase that is translated “the works you do” in the New International Version is more freely translated “see your miracles” in the New Living Translation. So, it is clear that the brothers had heard the stories of Jesus’ miracles or had witnessed them personally. Now they want Jesus to reveal himself to the world. They say, “Since you are doing these things, show yourself to the world.”

The brothers’ unbelief went deeper than a surface acknowledgement of the miracles. They doubted his deity—his divine origin. To his brothers, Jesus was too familiar. He was Mary’s boy—their half-brother—nothing more. But beyond that, he was their half-brother, the bastard son, putting on airs, rising above his rightful station in life. Furthermore, they were jealous of his rising popularity as a person of considerable renown.

Here we see the truth of what John said in the introduction to his Gospel, “He [Jesus] was in the world, and though the world was made through him, the world did not recognize him. He came to that which was his own, but his own did not receive him” (John 1:10–11).

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Jesus was rejected by his own—by his own brothers. They did not recognize him as God or the Son of God.

As one of the three disciples within Jesus’ inner circle, John was likely a witness to this conversation between Jesus and his brothers. Now in his Gospel, John bears witness to the brother’s unbelief.

But John had another domestic source that may have enlightened him more fully on the brothers’ lack of faith. John was responsible for looking after Mary after Jesus’ death. Surely the issue of the brothers’ early rejection of the messianic Jesus was a topic of discussion at some point.

Undoubtedly, at times Mary would also have encountered the disparaging perspective that her younger sons had toward Jesus. Jesus did not easily fit into a world or even a family that prefers conformity. Those who are struggling to raise exceptional children may find some comfort in that. Often gifted children are misunderstood or not well-received socially by peers and even by adults.

Jesus sees through his brothers’ advice to their deep-seated antagonism, and consequently he responds harshly to their challenge to reveal himself to the world. But with his response, he provides a clue as to why they rejected him. “Jesus told them, ‘My time is not yet here; for you any time will do.’”

For the brothers, when they consider Jesus’ claims to deity, they see an elephant in the room—perhaps several of them. The largest problem may well be the death of their father Joseph. How could this healer of the sick, this miracle worker, this man who raised the dead to life on more than one occasion do nothing to prevent the death of their father?

The unspoken thought might go something like this, “So Jesus, you’re the Son of God! Well, why then did you let Dad die? Why didn’t you do something? Why do you go about healing perfect strangers, while your own family suffers?”

But how does Jesus respond? “Jesus told them, ‘My time is not yet here; for you any time will do.’”

That may be a fine answer for the public, but it does little to soothe an aching heart or comfort the doubting soul of a family member. Why did Jesus raise to life the son of the widow at Nain (Luke 7:11-17), but leave Joseph, his earthly father, to die?

Variations on this question confront us often. Why is one child spared in a school shooting, while others are gunned down by a madman? Why does one woman make a miraculous recovery from terminal cancer, while an equally worthy woman suffers and dies, leaving a grief-stricken family? These questions have no easy answer. None exists on this side of eternity.

Death stalks all of us, and ultimately death always claims its prize. A better question might be, “Why now? Why did this person die now? Why not later?”

“Jesus told them, ‘My time is not yet here; for you any time will do.’”

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There was no miracle for their father Joseph. Jesus’ time had not yet come. His time for doing miracles had not yet arrived. Earlier in John’s Gospel, Jesus made a similar pronouncement when Mary asked him to intervene when the wine ran out at the wedding in Cana. “‘Woman, why do you involve me?’ Jesus replied. ‘My time has not yet come.’” (John 2:4)

But despite this objection, Jesus proceeded to perform his first miracle as he turned water into wine. The question of timing remains. Why work a miracle in one situation, but not in another? Why heal one invalid at the pool of Bethesda (John 5:1-16), but leave many others to suffer?

Clearly, Jesus was working according to a different timetable. In the present, we tend to think as Jesus’ brothers thought. We could always use a miracle or two. For us, when it comes to receiving a miracle, “any time will do.”

At this point in John’s account, there is clearly a great gulf separating these brothers and Jesus, and Jesus does nothing to bridge it. On the contrary he expands the gulf and elaborates on it. Speaking of his brothers, he says, “The world cannot hate you, but it hates me because I testify that its works are evil. You go to the festival. I am not going up to this festival, because my time has not yet fully come.”

Implied in these remarks is the idea that the brothers are worldly and complicit with the evil of the world. Jesus sees himself as being on a great redemptive mission—a mission set in motion by his heavenly Father. It is a mission of impeccable, precise timing. He will not be distracted, bated or thrown off course by his brothers. For Jesus timing was everything. He will not be hurried into doing miracles or into revealing himself to the world. He will not be hurried to his death in Jerusalem. He is not a showman, a performer or an entertainer for the crowds.

He is a redeemer on a mission—a sacrificial lamb, the Passover lamb—saving himself for slaughter at the right time, the perfect time.

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There is a double meaning in the phrase, “My time is not yet here.” For the brothers it meant the time for Jesus to reveal himself to the world through his miraculous powers, but for Jesus it also meant the time for his approaching death. The Jewish leaders were already plotting his demise. He did not want to speed that day by following his brothers’ ill-conceived ideas.

Jesus’ brothers understood none of this. They did not believe in him. James did not believe in him. The brothers proceeded to the feast while Jesus stayed for a time in Galilee. The rift between them is clearly defined. They did not travel together. They are walking separate paths. Jesus has his followers, his disciples, but his brothers are not numbered among them.

Unbelief and a sharp division in the family are not what we would expect from the union of Mary and Joseph. We would like to believe that Mary and Joseph did a stellar job in raising their children; after all they were selected by God for this specific assignment.

But let’s be clear: this was no easy task.

Many believe that Mary and Joseph disclosed to Jesus in an age-appropriate manner the divine nature of his origin and the broad outlines of his calling. Surely this was a part of their parental responsibility, a responsibility given to them by God.

Joseph certainly would have trained Jesus in the skills of carpentry. The family would have been active in the local synagogue. A synagogue education would include learning to read and write, but also committing reams of scripture to memory.

This would all be foundational to Jesus’ later ministry.

But the parental task of educating Jesus in his messianic calling would be far easier if there were no younger brothers around. Singling out a child for special status or treatment instantly creates family tension. Anyone named Joseph should know this well.

The brothers’ rejection of Jesus bears a striking resemblance to another example of sibling rivalry and rejection recorded in the last chapters of Genesis. When he was a teenager, the patriarch Joseph (Joseph of the multicolored coat) was rejected by his brothers. But this was no mild snub. Joseph’s brothers initially wanted to kill him, but they settled for selling him to Ishmaelites, who later sold him into slavery in Egypt. See Genesis chapters 37-50.

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The New Testament Joseph surely must have had his Old Testament namesake in mind as he raised his own family. The parallels run deep. Many biblical scholars have noted that there is a striking similarity between the life of Jesus and the life of Joseph, the patriarch, whose story is recorded in Genesis.

Here in brief are some of these parallels:

• Both claimed a special relationship with their father—Jesus’ father being God, while Joseph’s father was Jacob, who is also called Israel, the father of the nation. (Luke 2:49, Genesis 37:3–4)

• Both had a revelation of their divine calling at or near puberty. (Luke 2:41–52; Genesis 37:5–11)

• Both were rejected by their brothers. (John 1:11 and John 7:5; Genesis 37:12–32)

• Though both were tempted, they lived a sinless or exemplary life. (Matthew 4:11 and 2 Corinthians 5:21; Genesis 39:6–15)

• Both were wrongly accused, arrested and suffered though innocent. (Mark 14:43–15:41; Genesis 39:19–21)

• After suffering both were exalted to rule. (Philippians 2:9–11; Genesis 41:41–44)

• Both brought deliverance or salvation—Joseph for Egypt, Jesus for the world. (John 3:16; Genesis 50:20)

• Both forgave those who wronged them and were reconciled with their brothers. (Luke 23:34; Genesis 50:21)

If the New Testament Joseph showed any special favoritism to Jesus, he risked repeating the mistakes of Jacob, the father of the Joseph of the Old Testament. In that instance, special treatment led directly to fierce resentment and forced exile from the family.

This may have left Joseph in a conundrum. Too much disclosure of Jesus’ divine origin and messianic calling put him at risk of resentment and rejection by his siblings. No disclosure at all could be interpreted as a failure of parental responsibility.

Even the meaning of term Messiah is problematic. We understand this word quite differently now. How did Joseph and Mary see their son’s calling? They were looking at him through first century Jewish eyes, and they likely had expectations and perspectives that were quite different from ours today.

The desire for a Jewish Messiah to arise from among the people was pervasive during this historic period. The felt need was for a strong leader to arise and rally the people, so they could overthrow the oppressive pagan rule of Rome by means of a bloody insurrection. From the Jewish perspective the need and the vision were clear. This Messiah—the anointed one—would re-establish the throne of David and with a rod of iron he would rule over Israel and the surrounding nations in righteousness and justice.

The firstborn son in Joseph’s household had the right lineage. He was a son of David and furthermore, at his birth his messianic call was confirmed by the words of angels, prophets and magi. Surely at the right time Joseph would or should instill into Jesus the imperatives of his messianic call. Did Joseph do this?

On this topic the scriptures are maddeningly silent. Joseph dies at some point between Jesus’ boyhood visit to the temple and the emergence of his public ministry. When or how is unknown.

If Joseph and Mary followed the wisdom of the day, they would have imparted an incorrect messianic vision. Several would-be messiahs rose up in rebellion against Rome before and after Jesus’ crucifixion. Each rebellion was brutally crushed until the Jews were finally expelled from Jerusalem and their homeland in 135 AD.

The rebellion that Jesus would eventually lead was a soft power rebellion that rejected bloodshed and the use of force. See John 18:36. But ultimately the kingdom of God, which Jesus founded, would triumph over the empire of Rome. Down through the ages to the present day, his followers have submitted to his rule within a kingdom that never ends.

In matters affecting family dynamics, timing is crucial. In the right time, the dreams of the Joseph of the technicolor coat would come true. His parents and brothers would bow down to him. Joseph, the son of Israel, became the ruler of all of Egypt.

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In the right time, Jesus’ brothers beginning with James would recognize him as the Son of God and the Savior of the world. They too would bow before him as king. All would come in the right time, including reconciliation.

Prior to the disagreement with his unbelieving brothers cited in John 7, Jesus was in conflict with the Jewish leadership in Judea. This too was a conflict over timing. He had dared to heal a man on the Sabbath. See John 5. In his discourse with the Jewish leadership, Jesus gives us a glimpse into his modus operandi:

Very truly I tell you, the Son can do nothing by himself; he can do only what he sees his Father doing, because whatever the Father does the Son also does. For the Father loves the Son and shows him all he does. Yes, and he will show him even greater works than these, so that you will be amazed. For just as the Father raises the dead and gives them life, even so the Son gives life to whom he is pleased to give it. Moreover, the Father judges no one, but has entrusted all judgment to the Son, that all may honor the Son just as they honor the Father. Whoever does not honor the Son does not honor the Father, who sent him. (John 5:19–23)

These words leave no doubt about whose agenda Jesus is following. He is going about his Father’s business. The twelve-year-old has grown up. Joseph is dead. The thirty-year-old Jesus is moving according to the dictates of his heavenly Father. He does “only what he sees his Father doing.”

Without doubt, what Jesus does, he does in his Father’s perfect timing. As we shall see, pursuing his messianic call would bring him into direct conflict with his brother—James the unbeliever.

Did Joseph and Mary fail in their parental mandate because we see evidence of serious conflict and unbelief within their family? If these saintly parents were unable to raise their family in harmony and faith, what hope do Christian parents have today?

Concluding that Joseph and Mary somehow failed in their parental mandate is unwarranted. Right actions stemming from right motives are often misunderstood, particularly within the dynamics of a large and growing family. Children, particularly adult children, are accountable for their own attitudes and actions.

In some respects, the Genesis account of Joseph’s life serves as a template for what unfolds 1,500 years later in the family of Mary and Joseph. Division and conflict bubble to the surface, but ultimately all is resolved through salvation and forgiveness.

Interestingly, the Book of Genesis ends with this statement:

So Joseph died at the age of a hundred and ten. And after they embalmed him, he was placed in a coffin in Egypt. (Genesis 50:26)

Four hundred years later, after a great deliverance, the stone box containing Joseph’s bones was carried out of Egypt and into the land of Israel. There his bones found their ultimate resting place.

And Joseph’s bones, which the Israelites had brought up from Egypt, were buried at Shechem in the tract of land that Jacob bought for a hundred pieces of silver from the sons of Hamor, the father of Shechem. This became the inheritance of Joseph’s descendants. (Joshua 24:32)

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Two thousand years after the death of the New Testament Joseph, we encounter another stone burial box. In the Hebrew language it bears this inscription: “James, son of Joseph, brother of Jesus.”

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Who am I? The Defining Question

01 Sunday Mar 2026

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James: the Lynchpin of Our Faith — Chapter 3

John in the opening chapter to his gospel account makes this observation about Jesus: “He was in the world, and though the world was made through him, the world did not recognize him. He came to that which was his own, but his own did not receive him” (John 1:10–11).

Most commentators on this passage conclude that John, who wrote this gospel in the latter part of the first century, was referring to the rejection of Jesus by the majority of the Jewish nation. To paraphrase: Jesus came to his own people, but they did not recognize him as their Messiah or receive him as such.

Undoubtedly, this is a correct interpretation of this passage. However, I would argue that typically we view and interpret this passage much too broadly. On the macro level this standard view is correct; Jesus was rejected by the Jewish nation. But it is within the microcosm of the family that the truth of this passage truly hits home. Jesus was not only rejected by his nation; he was rejected by his own family. A careful reading of the gospels makes this painful point clear.

The hometown rejection, which we read of in the previous chapter, foreshadows a much more extensive rejection of Jesus that rippled through his family, through the religious establishment and the whole of Jewish society. It culminated in his condemnation by the Sanhedrin and crucifixion at the hands of the Romans. Despite his wise teachings, which were coupled with signs and wonders, most of his contemporaries did not recognize the divinity of Christ. In their eyes, he was just a man—a man dangerously masquerading as so much more. The Gospel accounts make it blatantly clear that this was also the view that James and his brothers held.

But before we delve deeper into Jesus’ rejection by his family, we need to examine the topic of self-recognition. In the quote above, John stated, “He [Jesus] was in the world, and though the world was made through him, the world did not recognize him” (John 1:10).

John sees the problem of Jesus rejection as stemming from a failure of the people to recognize who he was. John clearly saw Jesus as the Creator of the universe; he recognized Jesus as Deity, but by and large Jewish society did not. He was Deity disguised in humanity and for many the disguise was too effective, too confounding. To this day it remains a stumbling block, particularly for those trained in the Jewish faith. God taking on human form is a foreign concept, and it is incomprehensible.

Now imagine for a moment how baffling—how incomprehensible—this concept would be for a twelve-year-old Jewish boy. But somehow at the age of twelve, Jesus grasped it. He recognized his own Deity. He saw himself as the Son of God. How exactly did this come about?

Childhood is all about self-discovery and learning our place in the world. Quite naturally self-discovery begins at home within the context of the family. We learn who we are from our parents and siblings. They define our genetic and cultural heredity. Genetically we are like them, and we become even more like them through our exposure to their loving nurture, interaction and instruction. Our family defines us, particularly at a young age. But for reasons we do not fully understand, Jesus saw himself as radically different. He saw that he did not fit or rightfully belong in his father’s household—in Joseph’s household. Already at age twelve, he recognized that he was not Joseph’s son.

How did this come about? How did Jesus come to see himself as different? Furthermore, it is one thing to conclude that this man you have grown up with is not your true father, but it is a huge leap for a twelve-year-old to conclude that he is some kind of divinely conceived genetic mutant, an offspring of God—a God/Boy. Yet that is how Jesus came to see himself.

The only gospel account of Jesus’ childhood presents a fascinating snapshot of Jesus’ self-perception. In the following account, Jesus reveals how he sees himself; he grasps his true identity:

Every year Jesus’ parents went to Jerusalem for the Festival of the Passover. When he was twelve years old, they went up to the festival, according to the custom. After the festival was over, while his parents were returning home, the boy Jesus stayed behind in Jerusalem, but they were unaware of it. Thinking he was in their company, they traveled on for a day. Then they began looking for him among their relatives and friends. When they did not find him, they went back to Jerusalem to look for him. After three days they found him in the temple courts, sitting among the teachers, listening to them and asking them questions. Everyone who heard him was amazed at his understanding and his answers. When his parents saw him, they were astonished.

His mother said to him, “Son, why have you treated us like this? Your father and I have been anxiously searching for you.”

“Why were you searching for me?” he asked. “Didn’t you know I had to be in my Father’s house?” But they did not understand what he was saying to them.

Then he went down to Nazareth with them and was obedient to them. But his mother treasured all these things in her heart. And Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man. (Luke 2:41–52)

The Boy Jesus in the Temple Courts

Jesus response to Mary’s question speaks volumes about Jesus’ self-perception. “Why were you searching for me? Didn’t you know I had to be in my Father’s house?”

It’s almost as though he is saying to his mother, “I know who I am. I’ve figured it out. Did you forget whose son I really am? God is my Father. All I wanted to do is spend some time with Him.”

“But they did not understand what he was saying to them” (Luke 2:50).

If Mary and Joseph did not understand what Jesus was saying to them, it would seem to indicate that they did not tell him of his divine origin. There was no private conversation where Joseph took Jesus aside and said, “Look son, you’re really not my son. Oh, and by the way, this is how you came about…”

Apparently, Mary did not have this conversation with Jesus either. Think about it. It would be a very difficult conversation to initiate. Explaining the virgin birth would surely stretch the bounds of common logic and would profoundly conflict with the norms of the Jewish faith. Why would the one true God impregnate a Jewish girl by the Spirit? Consider it for a moment. It’s preposterous and intrinsically it runs counter to all we know of Jewish religious dogma.

How do you tell your firstborn that he is the Son of God? Apparently, you don’t. If he truly is the Son of God, you let him figure it out. From this account, it would seem this is the course of inaction that Mary and Joseph took. They let Jesus figure it out. And he did.

That’s what’s truly remarkable about this account. The twelve-year-old figured it out. He discovered his true identity.

The question remains: How did Jesus do it? How did he come to realize his divinity?

Typically, we read this account of the lost twelve-year-old Jesus from the viewpoint of a parent. We identify with the stress of losing a child in a big city. We would title this story, “Mary and Joseph find lost Jesus.” But the story reads quite differently when we view it from the perspective of a child trying to discover who he really is. Viewed from Jesus’ perspective the title of the story might well be, “Lost Boy finds Himself ” or “Lost Boy Discovers His Divinity.”

How did Jesus discover he was God’s son? Some believers might well reason that the answer is obvious. Jesus is God; therefore, he is omniscient. The all-knowing Jesus would surely know that he was God’s son. But many theologians would beg to differ. They view the humanity of Christ as all-pervasive. Jesus was 100% human, and as such he needed to learn and discover his identity, even as any child does. The apostle Paul’s writing lends credence to this perspective. Here is his advice to the believers at Philippi:

In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death—even death on a cross!

Therefore God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father. (Philippians 2:5–11)

The passage above contrasts the humility and exaltation of Christ. In taking on humanity, Christ emptied himself of Deity. He fully became one of us. He was faced with the same frailties and limitations. In other words, in his humanity, he did not know everything. His feet got tired after a long day, and, yes, they probably stank too. He was fully human. He grew hungry and thirsty, and he was tempted in every way just as we are.

The writer of the Book of Hebrews, when speaking of Jesus tells us that he was

fully human in every way, in order that he [Jesus] might become a merciful and faithful high priest in service to God, and that he might make atonement for the sins of the people. Because he himself suffered when he was tempted, he is able to help those who are being tempted. (Hebrews 2:17–18)

If this is true, then the boy Jesus needed to discover his divine identity. It may have been written into every fibre of his being, but he still needed to discover it, just as any young musical prodigy needs to explore and discover his or her gift. All divine gifts must be discovered and developed to reach their maximum potential.

Luke concludes his boyhood account about Jesus with these words: “Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man” (Luke 2:41–52). Evidently, there was a process of learning and growth in Jesus’ development, even as there is in any boy transitioning to manhood. But there was something different about this child. His interests were different from his peers. We are told that he was found in the temple courts, “sitting among the teachers, listening to them and asking them questions. Everyone who heard him was amazed at his understanding and his answers” (Luke 2:46b–47). Clearly, he possessed wisdom and insight beyond his years. His divine DNA was showing. It was written into the very character of his soul, and he was learning to read what was written there.

He was the Son of God.

That is what the boy Jesus saw writ large upon his life. That is what he heard his Father saying to him. If Joseph did not tell the boy Jesus about his divine origin, his heavenly Father certainly did. He was whispering in his ear, “You are my son!”

The teachers were amazed because they were catching glimpses of Deity.

Why did this realization of who he was occur to Jesus at this time?

Developmental psychologists tell us there is something quite significant about the mind of a twelve-year-old. For most children it’s the year of the great leap forward. Mentally there is this massive shift that takes place in brain function. The brain moves from concrete to abstract thought. Ideas take on far greater significance. The mind is less dependent on physical objects as props to thought. Ideas and concepts can be grasped and manipulated in ways that were impossible a few months earlier. In this context, the concept and understanding of self takes on a new significance.

In his twelfth year, for the first time Jesus fully understood who he was.

Jesus was different from his brothers. That was probably the first clue in discovering his true identity. We don’t know what Jesus looked like. First century people didn’t have cameras, and Da Vinci and the European master artists did not have time machines, so we really have no clear idea about Jesus’ appearance.

We do not know what divine DNA looks like when it takes on human form. Did Jesus simply look like a male version of Mary? Or were there other marked differences in appearance coming from the heavenly Father?

We can safely assume that Jesus didn’t look like Joseph, and if he didn’t resemble Joseph, he probably appeared to be different from his half-brothers, James, Joseph, Simon, and Jude. A father’s facial and physical traits are usually very evident in his sons.

A perceptive child would notice the differences. And Jesus was a perceptive child. By age twelve he would recognize that he was the different one, the odd one in the family. Knowing whose child you are cuts to the very core of your identity. Discovering you are not who you think you are is jarring to say the least. Imagine waking up to this totally altered reality. You are not your father’s son. You belong to someone else. You are someone else.

That is the reality that the twelve-year-old Jesus was coming to grips with. His decision to not return to Nazareth with his parents needs to be viewed in this context. Was this a deliberate decision? If Jesus knew he was not Joseph’s son, why return with this man who was not his father? But if he wasn’t Joseph’s son, whose child was he? Did Jesus stay in Jerusalem in an attempt to discover the answer to that question? The twelve- year-old Jesus was coming face to face with an intense identity crisis.

There is a huge level of pathos and emotional freight in this story. Joseph and Mary are frantically worried and searching for their lost son. But on the other side of the equation, we see a lost son—with his whole sense of self in question. Was he searching for and discovering a new identity? But there is a huge leap from recognizing you are different—not fully one of the family—to identifying yourself as the Son of God.

But Jesus made that leap. The New King James Version translates Jesus’ response to Mary’s question in the temple this way. “Why did you seek Me? Did you not know that I must be about My Father’s business?” (Luke 2:49).

Implicit in that response is Jesus’ recognition that he was not the carpenter’s son, but instead God’s son—God’s son ready and willing to take on God’s work.

The easier conclusion a perceptive twelve-year-old might reach is that he was the product of Mary’s union with another man—maybe the result of a teenage fling or indiscretion, or perhaps Mary was raped by a Roman soldier. That would account for Jesus’ apparent differences from the other members in the family. It might also be the reason why these differences were not discussed. His conception was an embarrassing episode prior to marriage. For reasons of family pride, some things were better left unsaid.

But Jesus did not reach this more mundane conclusion. According to the scenario presented here, everything within him told him he was the Son of God. His internal script contained a different code, and there in the temple he had deciphered it. He was God’s son come in the flesh. The lost boy had found Himself. He had found His true identity, not as Joseph’s son, but as God’s Son. (4

Time would tell if this was just the deluded thoughts of a preteen dreamer, or if there was the ring of truth to his self-identification with Deity.

J. W. Shepard in his classic The Christ of the Gospels gives us his take on this account from Luke:

Theologians have speculated as to when Jesus first became conscious of the fact that He was God’s son in a peculiar sense and of his Messianic mission. We turn to these words as the sole clear self-revelation of Jesus in his boyhood years. In them we find his feeling of a distinct disappointment, that his parents did not understand Him better. He reveals in them the consciousness of a unique relationship to His Father. He expressed in them a clear sense of His primary obligations to God, which for the time had so engrossed His attention, that He almost lost sight of time and his human filial relationships. (5

At this point readers may well be questioning how this connects with James. This is supposed to be a book about James after all. But James may well have been present—standing next to Mary and Joseph when Jesus said “Why did you seek Me? Did you not know that I must be about My Father’s business?” (Luke 2:49 NKJV)

There are some sound reasons for believing that this was the case—that young James was present when Jesus identified himself as God’s son. In the previous chapter we clearly established that there were other children born to Mary and Joseph. Luke tells us that… “Every year Jesus’ parents went to Jerusalem for the Festival of the Passover. When he was twelve years old, they went up to the festival, according to the custom” (Luke 2:41–42).

It is logical to assume that this was a pilgrimage that the whole family undertook. Being observant Jews, there are no obvious grounds to assume otherwise. If this is the case, there may well have been as many as five or six children in this family entourage. In this context losing track of one child makes far more sense, given the large size of this family. The oldest boy, Jesus, was more independent, so “Thinking he was in their company, they traveled on for a day. Then they began looking for him among their relatives and friends” (Luke 2:44).

When Joseph and Mary returned to Jerusalem to search for Jesus, James and his brothers and sisters may have come with them. Having just lost one child, Mary and Joseph would want their remaining children close beside them, or safe in the care of the extended family. Hence, it is possible that James was present with his parents when they came upon Jesus in the temple courts.

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Finally, we need to consider how this story came to be in Luke’s Gospel. In the introduction to his gospel, the good doctor Luke gives us some insight into the sources he drew upon when he wrote his account of Jesus life.

Many have undertaken to draw up an account of the things that have been fulfilled among us, just as they were handed down to us by those who from the first were eyewitnesses and servants of the word. With this in mind, since I myself have carefully investigated everything from the beginning, I too decided to write an orderly account for you, most excellent Theophilus, so that you may know the certainty of the things you have been taught. (Luke 1:1–4)

Luke asserts that he did some careful investigation, and from the above statement it is reasonable to assume that he interviewed eyewitnesses before he sat down to write this portion of his Gospel account. Who were these eyewitnesses?

Luke tells us more about the birth of Jesus and John the Baptistthan any other Gospel writer. He alone describes the stable birth in Bethlehem, the angelic visitation and the adoration of the shepherds. He alone speaks of the encounter with Simeon and the prophetess Anna in the temple courts, where Mary and Joseph hear prophetic words spoken over the baby Jesus. None of the other three Gospel writers make mention of the boyhood of Jesus. Only Luke recounts the twelve-year-old Jesus’ instructional escapade with the teachers of the law in the temple courts.

There is a richness of detail in these stories which strongly suggests that Luke got these accounts from someone who was present when they happened, someone who had an intimate knowledge of the holy family and their history. Two possible sources spring immediately to mind: Mary and James.

Since Joseph died at a relatively young age, Mary would appear to be the obvious choice. But if Luke had an opportunity to speak with her, she would be well-advanced in years. When was Luke’s Gospel written? Could Luke have interviewed Mary or James—or perhaps both—before he penned his Gospel?

Biblical scholars vary widely in their dating of Luke’s Gospel. In his introduction to the Book of Luke, Dr. J. Lyle Story, Associate Professor of Biblical Studies at Regent University, makes the following statement:

Since Luke was in Caesarea during Paul’s two-year incarceration there (Acts 27:1), he would have had ample opportunity during that time to conduct the investigation he mentions in Luke 1:1–4. If this is the case, then Luke’s Gospel may be dated around A.D. 59–60, but as late as A.D. 75. (6

It is by no means unreasonable to picture a seventy-five-year-old Mary in the company of her greying son, James, sitting down over a meal with the good doctor Luke to discuss the events of Jesus’ birth and childhood. It is in fact a thoroughly plausible explanation as to how Luke was able to provide us with such a vivid account of these gospel events. Luke interviewed, probed and questioned the eyewitnesses that were available to him. And who would be better to question about Christ’s birth than Mary, the mother of Jesus?

In summing up Jesus’ birth and the visitation of the shepherds, Luke wrote, “But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart” (Luke 2:19). Since these are inner thoughts, how would Luke know that this was so, unless Mary told him?

Some would argue these passages simply came through the divine inspiration that was at work when Luke penned these words—an inspiration that infuses all the holy scriptures. But Luke clearly states that his sources were eyewitnesses. The use of eyewitness accounts does not nullify the concept of divine inspiration. On the contrary, one could argue that it reinforces it.

An early dating of Luke’s Gospel makes a meeting between Mary, James and Luke not only possible, but highly likely. Given James’ preeminent position in the early church,7 it stands to reason that he would be aware of Luke’s intention to write an authoritative gospel account of Jesus life. Luke may in fact, have asked for permission from James and sought his blessing to do so.

We also know that Luke accompanied Paul on his journey to Jerusalem, where together they met with James and the leaders of the church (Acts 21:15–40). Luke would have had an opportunity to discuss and research these matters at that time.

It would also logically follow that both James and Mary would want the events of Jesus annunciation, divine conception, birth and childhood recorded for posterity. Since Mary was already well-advanced in years, this would lend an element of urgency to this project. Full collaboration with Luke is the likely outcome.

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Historical records indicate that James died a martyr’s death in 64 AD. If Luke’s gospel was completed after 64 AD, then James was not the source of the material found in chapters one and two of Luke’s gospel. But with each succeeding year, the likelihood of Mary being the eyewitness source also diminishes. This makes an early dating of Luke’s gospel eminently plausible.

So, in conclusion, let’s return to that moment the boy Jesus said, “Did you not know that I must be about My Father’s business?” (Luke 2:49 NKJV)

Where was James when Jesus made this declaration? He was likely standing alongside his mother, Mary, and his father, Joseph, as those words were spoken.

Years later, James may also have played a significant role in ensuringthat those words were recorded for all generations.

4) A more commonly accepted scenario for Jesus’ self-identification is presented in the next chapter.

5) J. W. Shepard, The Christ of the Gospels (Eerdmans, 1938), p. 54.

6) J. Lyle Story, “Introduction: The Gospel of Luke,” Spirit Filled Life Bible, New King James Version, General Editor Jack W. Hayford (Thomas Nelson, 1991), p. 1503.

7) For a more thorough discussion of James’ leadership role in the early church, see Chapter 12 of this book.

 

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A Not So Immaculate Conception

22 Sunday Feb 2026

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James: the Lynchpin of Our Faith — Chapter 2

James was conceived in the ordinary way—the way that is common to all humanity. There was no virgin birth for him, no choir of angels trumpeted his arrival, and no star appeared to signal his nativity. He was from what we can surmise, just an ordinary child, born into a very extraordinary family.

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It should be noted that there are three men in the New Testament who bear the name James. Since they have the same name, the identity of these three men is often confused. The most prominent James during Jesus’ earthly ministry was James, the son of Zebedee. He was numbered among the twelve apostles. He was the older brother of the apostleJohn—the John who penned the Gospel that bears his name. Peter and the two sons of Zebedee were part of Jesus’ inner circle. During his ministry, Jesus often called Peter, James, and John apart from the other apostles to privately accompany him.2 But there was a second James within the apostolic circle. This was James, son of Alphaeus. He is sometimes called James the Less. Though he is numbered among the twelve disciples, he did not play a significant role in the New Testament narrative.

In contrast to these two men, James, the brother of Jesus, was never part of the apostolic team. The apostle James, the son of Zebedee was martyred early in the development of the church in Jerusalem (Acts 12:1–2), and we hear nothing further of James, son of Alphaeus, beyond a mention in the gospel accounts. Our purpose here is solely to focus on James, the brother of Jesus.

But was this James really born into this holy family? Roman Catholics revere Mary as a perpetual virgin; hence, they view any teaching that Mary had other children by Joseph as utter heresy. However, other children is precisely what we find when we examine the New Testament scriptures. In fact, we have already touched on a Bible verse that disproves the premise upon which this Catholic doctrine is based. Mary was not a perpetual virgin, not according to the Gospel of Matthew.

When Joseph woke up, he did what the angel of the Lord had commanded him and took Mary home as his wife. But he did not consummate their marriage until she gave birth to a son. And he gave him the name Jesus. (Matthew 1:24–25)

For our purpose, the key words in this passage are did not consummate. In other words, Joseph had no sexual union with Mary until after Jesus was born. It is interesting to look at how other Bible scholars have translated the original Greek of this passage. Here are some examples:

Then Joseph being raised from sleep did as the angel of the Lord had bidden him, and took unto him his wife: And knew her not till she had brought forth her firstborn son: and he called his name Jesus. (King James Version)

So when Joseph woke up, he married Mary, as the angel of the Lord had told him to. But he had no sexual relations with her before she gave birth to her son. And Joseph named him Jesus. (GNT)

And Joseph awoke from his sleep and did as the angel of the Lord commanded him, and took Mary as his wife, but kept her a virgin until she gave birth to a Son; and he called His name Jesus. (NASB)

When Joseph woke up he did what the angel had told him. He married Mary, but had no intercourse with her until she had given birth to a son. Then he gave him the name Jesus. (PHILLIPS)

All five of the translations cited above, while using different words, convey the same meaning. Mary remained a virgin until after the birth of the Christ child. Then after giving birth in due course, Joseph and Mary began normal sexual relations. This is what would be expected of any young married couple.

The King James Version (KJV) gives us the most literal translation of this passage. Matthew uses the Greek verb ginosko, which is translated into English as know, knew or to know. In this case, the verb is a negated progressive past tense, so in the KJV it is translated as knew her not. In the footnote to this passage the New American Standard Version more accurately renders the Greek used here as was not knowing her.

Matthew is using the verb know to convey the idea of carnal knowledge or sexual experience. By using the Greek form of this verb, he is harkening back to the first recorded instance of sexual relations in the Bible. “And Adam knew Eve his wife; and she conceived, and bare Cain, and said, “I have gotten a man from the LORD” (Genesis 4:1, KJV, emphasis added). Matthew’s Jewish readers would immediately understand the biblical reference to this form of knowledge.

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The chief point we need to recognize here is that Joseph’s state of not knowing her came to an end. Mary was a virgin until some point after Jesus was born. In Matthew 1:25, the preposition rendered until (NIV) or till (KJV) is of crucial importance. It signals an action or a state of being coming to an end at a fixed point in the future. The Greek word translated as until is heos and it is more literally translated as up to or unto. In other words, Joseph’s state of not knowing his wife Mary lasted up to the birth of Jesus. Thereafter, the marriage was consummated, as the NIV translation states.

Luke gives us further evidence that this marriage was consummated; he even provides a strong clue to the timing. After referring to Jesus’ circumcision on the eighth day following his birth (Luke 2:21), the gospel writer goes on to report on Mary’s purification rites.

When the time came for the purification rites required by the Law of Moses, Joseph and Mary took him [Jesus] to Jerusalem to present him to the Lord (as it is written in the Law of the Lord, “Every firstborn male is to be consecrated to the Lord”), and to offer a sacrifice in keeping with what is said in the Law of the Lord: “a pair of doves or two young pigeons.” (Luke 2:22–24)

Leon Morris, in his commentary on the Gospel of Luke, rightly points out that there are two religious rites recorded in this passage.

Two quite separate ceremonies are involved here, the presentation of the child and the purification of the mother. The Levitical law provided that after the birth of a son a woman would be unclean for seven days leading up to the circumcision and for a further thirty-three she should keep away from all holy things (for a daughter the time was doubled; Leviticus12:1–5).3

After the completion of this purification rite, it was deemed fitting and proper for a Jewish married couple to resume their sexual relationship. Because prior to Jesus’ birth there had been no sexual relations between Mary and Joseph, one can logically conclude that their marriage was consummated shortly after this temple ceremony, most likely on the same day.

While the doctrine of the virgin birth rests on a solid scriptural foundation, there are no scriptural grounds from which one can argue that Mary remained a perpetual virgin. Joseph was instructed by the angel to take Mary home as his wife (Matthew 1:20). No special instructions on abstinence were given. One can then logically assume that normal marital relations ensued. In fact, in Matthew 1:25 we are explicitly told that Joseph knew his wife (consummated the marriage) after the birth of Jesus. Furthermore, Luke provides us with a definitive time frame as to when sexual relations began. Being observant Jews in every way, the Holy Family followed the rites proscribed by the Law. This includes the full rites of marriage.

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It should then come as no surprise when we read that other children were born to this family. All four gospels refer to Jesus’ brothers; two of the gospels list them by name.

Isn’t this the carpenter’s son? Isn’t his mother’s name Mary, and aren’t his brothers James, Joseph, Simon and Judas? (Matthew 13:55)

“Isn’t this the carpenter? Isn’t this Mary’s son and the brother of James, Joseph, Judas and Simon? Aren’t his sisters here with us?” And they took offense at him. (Mark 6:3)

In the context of the two passages above, Mary is clearly identified as the mother of Jesus and his brothers: James, Joseph, Simon, and Judas. The Judas recorded here should not be confused with Judas Iscariot, the disciple who betrayed Jesus. This Judas—the brother of James and half-brother of Jesus—is widely recognized as the New Testament author of the Book of Jude. Jude is a Greek language variant of Judas. In fact, this brother Judas identifies himself in the opening line of his New Testament epistle with these words: “Jude, a servant of Jesus Christ and a brother of James…” (Jude 1a).

The Mark 6:3 passage is significant because it establishes that there were also daughters born through the union of Mary and Joseph, as well as four sons. The fifth son is Jesus, the firstborn, who, according to scripture and long-established church doctrine, was conceived by the Holy Spirit.

Typically, children are listed according to their birth order. This appears to be precisely what is happening in the above passages. The sons are listed from oldest to youngest, though in Mark’s account Simon and Judas are reversed.

Since this was a patriarchal society, it should come as no great surprise that the daughters’ names are not mentioned. They may have been born after the boys listed here or perhaps interspersed among the boys in birth order. Matthew makes no reference to the sisters, while Mark mentions them but does not provide us with any names.

This passage from Mark is significant for another reason. The townspeople ask, “Isn’t this Mary’s son and the brother of James…?”

In a patriarchal society—one that does not bother to list sisters’ names—why not frame the question this way: “Isn’t this Joseph’s son?” By referring to Mary rather than Joseph, are the townspeople tacitly recognizing that Joseph was not the father of Jesus? This is a culturally unusual way of framing the question of lineage. It is presumed that Joseph died years earlier and that may explain why there is no reference made to him, but nonetheless it is peculiar that his name is not mentioned.

The list of brothers provides another clue about James. James is the anglicized version of the name Jacob, or in Hebrew Ya’aqov. Jacob, the Old Testament patriarch, was the second-born twin son of Isaac and Rebekah. Jacob’s older brother Esau was born with Jacob grasping onto his heel (Genesis 25:21–26).

Ya’aqov or James was a particularly fitting name for a second son in a Jewish family. But the name also suggests a certain character. The original Jacob was continually grasping for more. He was not content with his second-place status in relation to his brother. He provoked Esau into selling his birthright (Genesis 25:27-34) and later he conspired with his mother to cheat Esau out of his father’s blessing (Genesis 27).

If in character and conduct James/Ya’aqov resembled his Old Testament counterpart, then in his formative years Jesus would experience very difficult and challenging times with his brother. As we will see, during Jesus’ ministry James played the role of Jacob, a supplanter or deceptive usurper to great effect.

The list of brothers from Matthew and Mark’s Gospels form part of a description of the same incident—Jesus’ return to his hometown of Nazareth at the height of his public ministry. A closer look at Mark’s account provides us with a fascinating glimpse into this messianic family and the interplay of hometown perceptions and dynamics.

Jesus left there and went to his hometown, accompanied by his disciples. When the Sabbath came, he began to teach in the synagogue, and many who heard him were amazed.

“Where did this man get these things?” they asked. “What’s this wisdom that has been given him? What are these remarkable miracles he is performing? Isn’t this the carpenter? Isn’t this Mary’s son and the brother of James, Joseph, Judas and Simon? Aren’t his sistershere with us?” And they took offense at him.

Jesus said to them, “A prophet is not without honor except in his own town, among his relatives and in his own home.” He could not do any miracles there, except lay his hands on a few sick people and heal them. He was amazed at their lack of faith. (Mark 6:1–6a)

There is a kind of small-town-plausibility to this story that is quite disarming. Local boy leaves home; makes the Big Time, surrounded by adoring crowds and an entourage of followers. Our heroic figure returns home, but rather than adulation, he is greeted by small-minded jealousy and skepticism. This is a situation that in various forms has played itself out a thousand times, in a thousand small towns throughout the ages and in every society. Reading between the lines you can perhaps hear the crowd’s unspoken thoughts. “He’s nothing special. I remember him as a runny-nosed little kid. We know his family. There’s nothing wonderful about them. Who does he think he is?”

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This outcome was to be expected. They had no faith in him. He was too familiar, too ordinary in their eyes. They were amazed at his wisdom and the reports of miracles, but in their eyes he had committed the sin of overreaching. He had gone well beyond the expected small-town norms. Over achievers must be put in their place, so “they took offence at him” (Matthew 13:57a; Mark 6:3b).

There’s a confounding mix of the ordinary meeting the highly extraordinary in this account—an encounter of the common man with the ultimate superhuman. And Jesus was both: common and supernatural. He was the carpenter turned Savior of the world. This hometown reaction is what you might expect when God takes on flesh and becomes one of us. No one knew quite how to handle Him. He does not fit the norm. He is incongruent in so many ways, far outside the norm of human experience. The easiest response is to reject Him.

What can we conclude about James, the subject of this book, from these observations? What we have portrayed here is a rather ordinary first-century Jewish family. James, the second son of Joseph the carpenter (Matthew 13:55), was conceived and came into the world through Mary in the same way as any other child on the planet. He had one older brother named Jesus and three younger brothers, in addition to at least two sisters. It seems clear that Joseph had passed away at some point before the hometown visit recorded in Mark 6:1–6 and Matthew 13: 53–58. Before taking up his public ministry, Jesus had worked in the family business as a carpenter. It seems highly likely that with Jesus’ departure, James would have continued in the family trade. It is equally clear that the townspeople of Nazareth largely rejected Jesus’ ministry. They had no faith in him and “took offence at him” (Matthew 13:57a;
Mark 6:3b).

So how did James respond to his brother’s rise to fame? As we will see, James, like those around him, showed himself to be a true hometown boy, a son of Nazareth. He too shared in their skepticism.

2) Matthew 17:1, Mark 5:37, Mark 9:2, Mark 14:33, Luke 8:51, Luke 9:28.
3 Leon Morris, Luke—Tyndale New Testament Commentaries (Eerdmans, 1984), pp. 86–87.

 

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Mary Treasured up All These Things

25 Thursday Dec 2025

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I will praise the LORD!

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When the angels had left them
and gone into heaven,
the shepherds said to one another,
“Let’s go to Bethlehem
and see this thing that has happened,
which the Lord has told us about.”

So they hurried off
and found Mary and Joseph,
and the baby,
who was lying in the manger.
 
When they had seen him,
they spread the word concerning
what had been told them about this child,
 
and all who heard it were amazed
at what the shepherds said to them.
 
But Mary treasured up all these things
and pondered them in her heart.
 
The shepherds returned,
glorifying and praising God for all the things
they had heard and seen,
which were just as they had been told. 
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(Luke 2:15-20, NIV)

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I Bring You Good News

25 Wednesday Dec 2024

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Today’s quote and prayer from
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Reading: Psalm 69:6-12

LORD God,
give me a zeal for your house
and your presence.
As the months and years roll by,
I want my values to be reflected
in my actions and my passion for you, Lord.
On this Christmas Day,
replace my lukewarm heart
with a burning desire to know
and love you more.

Amen.

— — —

And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby,
keeping watch over their flocks at night.

An angel of the Lord appeared to them,
and the glory of the Lord shone around them,
and they were terrified.

But the angel said to them,
“Do not be afraid.
I bring you good news
that will cause great joy for all the people.

Today in the town of David
a Savior has been born to you;
he is the Messiah,
the Lord.

This will be a sign to you:
You will find a baby wrapped in cloths
and lying in a manger.”

 Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host
appeared with the angel,
praising God and saying,

“Glory to God in the highest heaven,
    and on earth peace
to those on whom his favor rests.”

When the angels had left them
and gone into heaven,
the shepherds said to one another,
“Let’s go to Bethlehem
and see this thing that has happened,
which the Lord has told us about.”

So they hurried off
and found Mary and Joseph,
and the baby,
who was lying in the manger.

When they had seen him,
they spread the word concerning
what had been told them about this child,

and all who heard it were amazed
at what the shepherds said to them.

But Mary treasured up all these things
and pondered them in her heart.

The shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God
for all the things they had heard and seen,
which were just as they had been told.

(Luke 2:8-7)*

As you celebrate our Savior’s birth
let the joy of Jesus flood your heart.

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Christmas Eve Quote and Prayer

24 Tuesday Dec 2024

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Reading: Psalm 69:1-5

LORD God,
thank you for showing us mercy
when we don’t deserve it.
Thank you on this Christmas Eve
for coming to rescue the likes of me.
For this mercy and a thousand more,
I give you thanks.

Amen.

— — —

In those days Caesar Augustus issued a decree
that a census should be taken
of the entire Roman world.

(This was the first census that took place
while Quirinius was governor of Syria.)

And everyone went to their own town to register.

So Joseph also went up
from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea,
to Bethlehem the town of David,
because he belonged to the house
and line of David.

He went there to register with Mary,
who was pledged to be married to him
and was expecting a child.

While they were there,
the time came for the baby to be born,

and she gave birth to her firstborn,
a son.
She wrapped him in cloths
and placed him in a manger,
because there was no guest room
available for them.
(Luke 2:1-7)*

On the eve of our Savior’s birth
let the peace of Christ flood your heart.

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Found Lying in a Manger

24 Sunday Dec 2023

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I will praise the LORD!

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Reading: Luke 2:13-20

Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying,

“Glory to God in the highest heaven,
    and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.”

When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let’s go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.”

So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby, who was lying in the manger. When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them. But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart. The shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all the things they had heard and seen, which were just as they had been told. *

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A Savior Has Been Born

24 Sunday Dec 2023

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Reading: Luke 2:4-12

So Joseph also went up from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to Bethlehem the town of David, because he belonged to the house and line of David. He went there to register with Mary, who was pledged to be married to him and was expecting a child. While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no guest room available for them.

And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.” *

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The Christmas Story

24 Saturday Dec 2022

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In those days Caesar Augustus issued a decree that a census should be taken of the entire Roman world. (This was the first census that took place while Quirinius was governor of Syria.) And everyone went to their own town to register.

So Joseph also went up from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to Bethlehem the town of David, because he belonged to the house and line of David. He went there to register with Mary, who was pledged to be married to him and was expecting a child. While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no guest room available for them.
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And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night.
An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.”

Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying,

“Glory to God in the highest heaven,
    and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.”

When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let’s go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.”

So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby, who was lying in the manger. When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them. But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart. The shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all the things they had heard and seen, which were just as they had been told (Luke 2:1-20, NIV). *

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Let’s Go to Bethlehem

25 Saturday Dec 2021

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I will praise the LORD!

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Reading: Luke 2:13-20

Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel,
praising God and saying,
“Glory to God in the highest heaven,
    and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.”
When the angels had left them
and gone into heaven,
the shepherds said to one another,
“Let’s go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened,
which the Lord has told us about.”
So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph,
and the baby,
who was lying in the manger.

When they had seen him,
they spread the word concerning
what had been told them about this child,
 
and all who heard it were amazed
at what the shepherds said to them.
 
But Mary treasured up all these things
and pondered them in her heart.
 
The shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God
for all the things they had heard and seen,
which were just as they had been told.

* NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION, COPYRIGHT ©1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 BY BIBLICA

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